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What’s a job you would like to do for just one day? Be a President for just one day even if in a third world country so-called.

List the people you admire and look to for advice… -Mummy -Papa -Kubiks -Godsson -Nifiks -My boss -My professors (yes, I keep in touch with positively impacting people in my life and show them respect and appreciation.). -Friends who are important to me(they know themselves). -People I work with who demonstrate the ability to lead…

What gives you direction in life? Maintaining course in life can be an arduous task given the amount of distractions that exists outside of ourselves starting from social media, to distracting other-people interactions, to nagging problems with every day life. I am of the opinion that mobile screens are like black holes that suck us…

Do you vote in political elections? Voting for political leaders can sometimes be a difficult decision for the common person. It becomes even more difficult when none of the candidates embody a solid enough integrity to earn that vote. But then, we have to vote one of the lesser evils eventually to avoid the feeling…

Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often? Quotes are some of the most underrated random sources of inspiration. The other part is that we have all subconsciously built at least one life philosophy based off a random quote we once deemed profoundly impactful. As a Nigerian, I come…

Have you ever been camping? No, but that’s something that I want to do and also don’t want to do, and also don’t know why I have mixed feelings about it. Maybe the right crowd might make it worth the try, but till then, I’ll just have a great time with my imagination and enjoy…

When is the last time you took a risk? How did it work out? It depends on what qualifies as risk from person to person. But with the way life goes, just waking up everyday is a risk! And then, people have varying risk tolerance levels. While jumping out from an airplane several thousands of…

Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently? I tend to have an action bias towards a lot of things and situations, especially when it comes to interpersonal interactions on any level. There are many times in my career growth when people expected a certain…

What makes you nervous? Nervousness can be such a subjective experience, and for people who suffer pathological extremes of nervousness by way of anxiety disorders or panic attacks, it can be triggered by almost anything and nothing. Except in very few instances, there’s barely a good enough reason to adopt nervousness as a coping strategy…

How do you unwind after a demanding day? It is true that some days are more demanding than others. It is important to take breaks and revive oneself on such days. Revival doesn’t have to be an extreme event that is hyper exciting. A phone call to someone you love is a good start. A…

Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind. I wrote from a sound mind and a calm heart today; you should read it.

Describe a random encounter with a stranger that stuck out positively to you. I have met quite a number of interesting persons in my life quite randomly, and surprisingly, I do have a couple of life philosophies drawn from my interactions with people that I’ve met briefly just once in my entire lifetime. The thing…

Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow. Some important life decisions are make or mar, but not making any is certainly a mar and mar. I remember an interesting conversation I once had with a client who was biker. This conversation was one of the impactful short interactions…

What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why? There’s not a place in the world that I wouldn’t visit, and that includes war torn zones and areas with public health concerns. Some of my best life experiences come from living in places like islands without electricity or cars. And, that said…

Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you. It would take a whole book to talk about the positive things that family members have done for me. I could describe my gratitude instead, but certain things lose their value when stretched too long and gratitude is one such thing. So if any…

What job would you do for free? First time I learned about scoring music was when I was working on a song that I had written (yes, wrote!) and was experimenting with what it would sound like with accompaniment. I was already in the church choir, and the keyboardist was willing so we met in…

How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals? Life has many paradoxes, some we can easily recognize and others we can’t. One of those paradoxes is the yes/no paradox, and it is even harder for people to grasp its operational principles in the age where thoughts are led by…

What is your favorite type of weather? That would have to be the Fall. The fall season, also known as autumn, is a time of beauty and transformation in nature. As the leaves change colors and fall from the trees, the landscape is painted in hues of red, orange, and yellow. The crisp air brings…

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? What a timely question! The match week is one of the toughest seasons for residency hopefuls in the United States. It is riddled with a lot of anxiety and all sorts. This is the week, and it has been tough on the mind. Here are…

What activities do you lose yourself in? Long walks can be a source of joy, relaxation, and discovery. Whether you’re strolling through a bustling city or meandering along a scenic trail, the act of walking allows you to slow down, appreciate your surroundings, and immerse yourself in the present moment. The fun of long walks…

Are you superstitious? Superstitions are like gossip; neither true, false, correct, or incorrect, yet they serve a very important function in solidifying the foundations of cultural values and identities. Interestingly, humans are selectively superstitious. When they know and understand the dynamics of an event or outcome, they are rarely superstitious. It would seem like superstitions…

Which animal would you compare yourself to and why? Human. Because…human!

Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. Dear 100 year old Me, I’m happy for you. Your life is beautiful to behold. You have lived. You have given life. You have attained all your self-determined success milestones. You have used your voice courageously and wisely. You have unabashedly upheld your philosophies of life and honored…

Where would you go on a shopping spree? Dubai, the dazzling city of extravagance, is a paradise for shopping enthusiasts from around the world. From luxurious malls to vibrant souks, Dubai offers a shopping experience like no other. I remember walking towards the aircraft to board for departure and being filled with wishful thinking to…

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance? Middle names were once someone’s first name. So, does the writer of this prompt think that it would have no special meaning/significance? A middle name is something that everyone has, and some people have more than one middle name. Does the writer of this…

What is the last thing you learned? It would be forty items long if I wanted to list them. But the one lesson that can be understood by the blind and deaf is love. Love is the best gift to give yourself. Love is the best gift to give anyone else. That’s it.

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? I know only one thing after failing so many times at important life pursuits, and that one thing is that colossal failure is a gift that everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime. Do you know why? 1. Failure helps…

You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence? Birthday wishes are some of the best sources to draw resources for crafting one’s autobiography as people are more inclined to include something honest about your personality. Now, it is a choice whether we want to share these kinds of significant and highly personal information with total…

What are three objects you couldn’t live without? None! We only think that we can’t live without things that we know exist or can afford to have. But there are necessities that we need that don’t yet exist, or we can’t yet afford, and we absolutely don’t think that we can’t live without them. Awareness…

What experiences in life helped you grow the most? Experiencing new cultures and perspectives can be incredibly growth-inspiring and transformative. In immersing myself in a different culture, I have been exposed to new ways of thinking, living, and interacting with the world. This exposure has broadened my horizons, challenged my preconceived notions, and expand my…

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to. Saying goodbye is an inevitable part of life, yet it remains one of the most challenging experiences we face. Whether bidding farewell to a loved one, a place, a phase of life, or even a habit, the act of saying goodbye holds profound…

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why? Me. Because that’s all I’ve been all my life. Because I am content with how my life is unfolding. Because I am confident that I will finish this race honorably. Because I don’t think anyone else’s life is easier than…

Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on. Hand sewn skirt with inverted pleats in the front! Third year of junior high school and we had to choose between cooking, housekeeping or clothing and textile. As a traditional Nigerian female, your default is cooking and housekeeping, and if you had a great-grandmother and…

What bores you? While repetition is something that eventually leads to ease in one way or the other, it remains one of the most boring processes, and I have often wondered why. Repetition is a common occurrence in various aspects of life, from daily routines to work tasks and even in entertainment. While repetition can…

What is your favorite drink? Coffee is a beloved beverage enjoyed by people around the world for its rich flavor and energizing effects. It is made from roasted coffee beans, which are ground and brewed with hot water to create a stimulating drink. Coffee contains caffeine, a natural stimulant that can help improve focus and…

Tell us about your favorite pair of shoes, and where they’ve taken you. Imagine a world where shoes are not just footwear, but a true embodiment of love for our feet. Picture shoes that not only complement our style but also nourish and support our well-being. These healthy shoes, with their unconventional designs, merge fashion…

Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received. Life after escaping from a near-death experience can be a mix of emotions, perspectives, and newfound appreciation for the gift of existence. While each individual’s experience is unique and deeply personal, there are some common threads that tend to emerge. First and foremost, survivors often find…

Write about your approach to budgeting. Budgeting is indeed a fascinating concept that can have a significant impact on our financial well-being. It involves allocating your income towards various expenses, savings, and investments in a structured manner to ensure that you are living within your means and working towards your financial goals. By creating a…

Have you ever unintentionally broken the law? In today’s modern world rife with violent gun crimes, attorneys and indeed modern societies have made the work of establishing intent in those cases harder by immediately implicating mental health disorders as the reason why people commit such heinous crimes. It’s important to note that the presence or…

If there was a biography about you, what would the title be? Personal biographies are important for several reasons. Unfortunately, we are more incentivized to craft a resume than we are to write a personal biography. Here are a few reasons why crafting a personal biography can be a rewarding experience: Firstly, a personal biography…

What were your parents doing at your age? If prompts could be fun, impersonal, and centered on social issues rather than personal lives, wouldn’t it make a difference? These questions get too invasive sometimes and creates a sense of discomfort. Invasive questions are those that cross personal boundaries and invade someone’s privacy. Recognizing invasive questions…

If you had the power to change one law, what would it be and why? Nothing. While it seems like some laws are harsh and inconsiderate, a lot goes into the making of a law. Of these factors, ethics and history are the most powerful ones that cannot be overlooked. Ethics and history are two…

Are there any activities or hobbies you’ve outgrown or lost interest in over time? That will have to be baking. I have loved baking cakes since a very young age, and have taught baking to friends who have made a trade out of it. It’s not like I want to actually outgrow that hobby, but…

What’s your favorite candy? In a world where coffee lovers are constantly on the lookout for new ways to indulge in their caffeine cravings, there is one treat that stands out from the rest – Kopiko coffee candy. This delectable confection has taken the world by storm with its rich coffee flavor and irresistible sweetness.…

Do you need a break? From what? Being persistently aware of bills can have significant mental impacts on individuals. Here are some of the common mental impacts: It is important for individuals experiencing these mental impacts to seek support and find healthy coping mechanisms. This may include seeking financial advice, creating a budget, or finding…

The most important invention in your lifetime is… I was researching a topic that has to do with my learning and I got curious, clicking link after link as I burrowed into the rabbit hole until…boom, puberty blockers! I was dazed at first, then angry. Then realizing that as a healthcare professional I’m not allowed…

Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end. A most ideal day for me begins with putting in some physical activity. It’s better if I can wake up early to get that done. Then comes a shower at the perfect temperature and of course a sip of a hot brewed coffee. Oh you don’t…